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You'll have more patience if you are having fun

Gretchen from the Happiness Project had a great story today that emphasized the truth of her main point:

If you have plenty of fun in your life – if you make time to see friends, to learn about things that interest you, to do the things you enjoy, like reading or going to movies or hiking – you have a higher store of patience and tolerance.

On the other hand, when you don’t have much fun in your life, it’s easy to become preoccupied with the aggravations and frustrations. There’s nothing to distract you from your bad feelings.

Gretchen was pushing a stroller through ice and snow and didn't even realize how difficult it was until she got home because she was having so much fun talking to her friend.  It's like a long wait at a restaurant isn't noticeable if you are catching up with an old friend. 

What color eyes will your baby have?

138435954_ac3d935771 As many of you know, I'm waiting impatiently to find out what color hair and what eyes Caleb will have.  In trying to figure it out I've discovered that eye color and hair color is not the simple "Bb" vs "bb" they taught us in elementary school science.  Now they think eye color is primarily determined by how one gene interacts with three other genes!  At least that's what I got out of the article.  I did learn one really interesting fact:

Green eyes probably represent the interaction of multiple variants [...] including perhaps the red-hair gene.

So green eyes and red-hair are related!

Photo by  myrtepeert.

What will you do for hotel points?

One of my coworkers stays in a different Hilton or Hilton partner hotel every night because stays - not nights - count towards status.  So one night he stayed across the street from our Marriott.  The next night he stayed across town.  Nevermind that we had to go drop him off and pick him up. 

What crazy thing have you done for points?

Groceries for a week on a boat

2474129_cf3188b552_3 We're chartering a sailboat from the Moorings for seven days and we had to order all of groceries ahead of time.  It was hard to plan all of our needs for a week in an environment we aren't used to.  How much water do you need?  How many cookies?  What to eat for breakfast?  We ended up planning for four meals onboard: cornish game hens, salmon, mahi-mahi and steak.  Frank is planning two of them and our friend Barbara is planning the other two.  Then we planned to eat most of our breakfasts and lunches on board with lots of snacks and appetizers included.  We didn't skimp on anything and all our food and drinks ended up costing us almost $800 (for five people) from Bobby's.

We ordered by downloading their spreadsheet, filling out our order, sending it back to them via email and then they sent us a quote.  They will deliver it to our boat at noon on Thursday!  I'll let you know how it goes!

The Trick to Saving a Few Minutes in Airport Security

413063454_09db16202a A few days ago I blogged about how to get through airport security.  Earlier this week I learned another good trick: ask to go through the explosive detector lane.  There's no line there.

Monday morning I arrived at the Denver airport twenty minutes before my flight was supposed to board and discovered that the security lines were wound around all the way out of all the available space and starting to curl back towards baggage claim!  (The problem was spring break ...)  I got in the frequent flier line and made good time and then I got the best piece of advice from the woman behind me in line.  She told me to ask to go through the explosives test line.  So after I got to the point where they check your ID,  I asked if I could go through the explosives check line, was told "sure" and there was no wait!  You go through security just the same way but you have to hold your boarding pass in your hand and you leave your shoes on until after you've gone through the explosive machine.  You stand in this machine, it blows air all over you and then you wait about 30 seconds.  When the light turns green, you step out, take your shoes off, put them through the Xray machine, step through the metal detector and show your boarding pass to the inspection agent.  I got through security, including the long line, in 20 minutes!

When I got to the concourse I joined the millions of people running down the concourse.  My flight was sold out and they had taken two volunteers but they had saved a seat for me!

Getting your frequent flier mile status back

The New York Times had an article yesterday about frequent fliers who lost their premier status because they had a baby or stopped traveling to care for a family member.  Before you say "whatever," realize that not having frequent flier mile status can mean allocating another hour in the morning to get through security.  It means not being able to work on the airplane because your laptop won't open in the back of the airplane so when you get home, you have to spend another hour answering emails.  Having frequent flier status can help the whole work/life balance when you travel a lot for work.

I had a good experience getting my status back from United.  I didn't travel for six months last year - some time before and some time after I had Caleb.  In order to get my status back from United I had to be persistent and I probably talked to four or five different representatives but finally one of them asked when my baby was born, checked how much I'd flown until then, projected out what it would have looked like over the year, and decided I would have earned premier executive status if I hadn't left on maternity leave.  She gave me premier executive status for the year and warned me I'd have to earn it the hard way this time.  She did ask about the flights I had taken during maternity and I explained that I had taken Caleb to see my parents.  So United was pretty good about giving frequent flier mile status back.

You can buy an aisle seat

I'm on a completely booked flight and as it started boarding they announced that if you had a middle seat you could buy an aisle seat for $29.  Since it's a completely booked flight that means that they are giving away the seats of late comers.  People that reserved aisle seats and who haven't shown up 30 minutes before departure will now be sitting in a middle seat when they show up.  And the airline will be $29 richer for each person that gets booted to a middle seat! 

They might also be selling my seat as I got a complimentary upgrade to business.

What will they think of next?

Water is now ok

You can now carry water onto the airplane - any water you bought after you went through security that is.

Why you should figure out what you love to do while you are waiting to win the lottery

120157809_d3a7ee3718 I'll start by saying that I play the lottery.  And I like wondering what I'd do for the rest of my life if I win.  I actually think that helps me figure out what I want to do for the rest of my life whether I win or lose!

But if you play the lottery, cross your fingers but don't hold your breath.  My Financial Journey put the odds in perspective. Here are a few of the examples:

  • You are more 208 times more likely to be struck by lightening this year than win the powerball (Source: National Weather Service)
  • You are 16 times more likely to get killed driving 10 miles to claim your Powerball ticket than actually winning it in the first place (Source: CNN)
  • If every single person alive on the planet (6.5 Billion) bought a powerball ticket - only 44 people would win (Source: Google Search )
  • You are 18,038 times more likely to have triplets than win the power ball (Source: BabyCenter and Storknet)  (I know somebody that won this one!)

You can read  My Financial Journey for the rest of them.

Photo by bingbing.

Lufthansa reinforces the negative German stereotype

80279508_80bdb4bcf7 Lufthansa is a stickler for the rules, whether they make sense or not.  Rules are to be followed and there are no exceptions.  Especially not for frequent fliers or people flying in business class or people who paid more for their ticket.  One traveller was recently barred from the from using the business class line even though he was entitled to use the first class line.  This guy thought it was funny:

 

Lufthansa Senator member sees the first class checkin has a long time, wants to use the empty business class line. They're told 'no way' -- a benefit of Senator status is that they use the First Class lines. Period. They're not allowed to use the business class lines.

[...] Your boarding pass displays your status, which entitles you to the lounge.... but the rules say you must present your membership card.  No card, no entry.  Rules.

Personally, having been in a very similar situation with Lufthansa, just reading the story made my heart beat faster and my blood start boiling.  The rules, whether they make sense or not, will be enforced by Lufthansa.

Maybe someday I'll run across Lufthansa and their rules when I'm not in the middle of a 40 hour trip or I'm not about to miss my flight, and I'll be able to see the humor in it, but not today.

Photo by  caribb.

What do baby's blankets have in common with murder's gloves?

192590334_a8cb59a92d Children become attached to a blankie or a toy for much the same reason that most of us don't want to own or touch anything belonging to a murderer.  Somehow, we (and the children) believe that there's an essence that belongs to people or things that can rub off.  At least that's what scientists are saying.  Personally, I think they've established that children love their blankies but they haven't really figured out why yet.

They did a study where they had a machine that magically copied objects.  (Really a researcher slid out a second object.)  Children were ok with the copies of all objects except the copy of their blankie.  Then only the original would do.  The only other exception they found was when the object was special because it belonged to someone special:

This unique property also applied to objects belonging to famous people. Hood and Bloom placed a metal goblet in the copying machine and told 6-year-olds that the object was special either because it was made of a precious metal or because it once belonged to the Queen.

When shown the original and a copy, children thought the duplicate silver goblet was worth the same as the original, but a goblet that once belonged to royalty was worth more than any copy.

So the next time you are getting frustrated with your child for wanting to carry their blankie or favorite stuffed animal into the swimming pool, ask yourself, would you want to wear a murderer's gloves?

Photo by frogmuseum2.

Commenting on blogs with coComment

34305989_b3af9e7d0f Blogs are about conversations.  In order for a blog conversation to happen, people have to comment.  One of the reasons I never used to comment on blogs was because I felt like I was dropping into a party, dropping a question or comment and then leaving without waiting to see if anyone had a response.  And I'd never go back to a blog post to see who responded to my comment!

coComment solved my problem.  If you use FireFox (and you should use Firefox! ), you can install their extention and then everytime you comment on a blog, it makes not of it.  Once a day or once a week you can log into your coComment account and see all the blogs you commented on and whether or not anybody responded after you.  You can then follow up on the comment ... or not.  You can also see who is commenting on the blogs you commented on.  It's a very useful tool if you like commenting on blogs.  And if you don't comment on blogs, well, maybe it will help you get started.

Photo by rougerouge.

Would you save 2500 kids?

I sit around and wonder what to do with my life.  What's my purpose in life?  And then I read about someone like Irena Sendler.  This amazing woman saved the lives of 2500 children!  Can you imagine?  She helped 2500 Jewish children in Poland find homes with Catholic families so they would escape the concentration camp.  She herself was tortured but she didn't give away any information about the children.

I'm sure she didn't go out looking for ways to save the world but when the opportunity presented itself, she stepped up to the plate.  She saw a need and stepped in to help at great cost and expense to herself.

How do we make sure that if the opportunity presents itself to us, that we recognize it?  And how do we find these opportunities?  My first response is "well, we all won't get the opportunity to save children from the Nazis" but then my next thought is "no, but there's probably even bigger opportunities today." 

Irena Sendler is now 97 years old and her only regret is that she didn't do more. 

Cute dog stories and pictures

5419830_8c0bf0cd58 If you haven't seen it yet, I'd like to show you Humans For Dogs, a blog about everything humans need to understand dogs.  I've included a lot of cute pictures that people have shared on Flickr!

Photo by  Altweibersommer.

We have an Atheist Member of Congress

As I've posted on atheism a couple of times, this news caught my eye.  A California congressman has identified himself as an atheist, a "Unitarian who does not believe in a supreme being."  He is the fourth public official in the United States to identify himself as atheist.  The other three are a California school board president, a Maine school committee member and a Massachusetts town meeting member.  They are all awfully brave considering that most Americans would vote for a Catholic, black, Jewish, woman, or homosexual before they would vote for an atheist for president!

Caffeine is not a stimulant

244455572_bf43493124 Turns out that coffee in the morning doesn't make you any more alert than non-coffee drinkers.  However, if you are addicted to caffeine and you don't get your coffee, you will be less alert than those non-coffee drinkers.  This University of Bristol study found:

all the drink does is counteract the mild caffeine withdrawal symptoms people are experiencing because they have gone without the stimulant overnight.

And those who drink a caffeinated drink first thing are no more alert than those who never consume one.

So, drink coffee if you like it, but if you are doing it just to help you stay awake or to be more alert in the morning ... you'll need to find something else.

Photo by ° d i °.

Winning the lottery isn't all it's cut out to be

Why do we all play the lottery when it's been proven that winning the lottery won't make us any happier?  Lottery winners are no happier six months after they win the lottery than they were before they one.  Many of them are considerably unhappier.

I wrote a few days ago about how money isn't evil.  The flip side is also true - money won't solve all your problems.   I think we play the lottery because we don't want to go to work everyday and we think we want a new car, maybe a new house and fancier vacations.  The real problem is that we don't know what we want - we don't know what would make us happy.  While money is certainly an enabler and I believe having money is a good thing, it won't help you figure out the purpose of your life.  Money won't help you figure out what makes you happy.  It won't tell you how to spend your day. 

The key to happiness isn't winning the lottery, it's figuring out what makes you happy.  I guarantee that if you know what makes you happy, what you enjoy doing every day, you can find a way to do that and pay the bills.   But no matter how big the jackpot is, it won't tell you what to do with the rest of your life.

Can you take needles through airport security?

83117651_9aec509a72 After I wrote How to go Through Airport Security Like a Pro a friend asked if you can take a sewing kit with needles through security.  The answer is yes.  You can bring:

  • needles
  • knitting needles
  • crochet hooks
  • blunt sissors
  • finger nail clippers

If you are ever in doubt you can bring a self addressed envelope with postage.  If they don't let you though security with your needle or sissors, you can drop them in your envelope and mail them home from the airport.

Photo by mrjoro.

See the Pictures on Craigslist

For those of you that like to shop on Craigslist, ParentHacks pointed me at a great new website called Listpic.  On one page, it will show you a picture of all the items for sale.  For example, if you look up boats for sale in Denver, you can see at a glance what type of boat is listed in each ad and just click on the ones you are interested in instead of having to read them all.

For those of you not familiar with Craigslist, it's an online classified ads site.  It's taken over the newspaper for the best way to find out what's for sale around you.

Money is not Evil

140482721_1c195058c4_m Money is not evil.  Having money is not wrong.  Spending money is not wrong. 

Steve Olson has a great post about Why People Believe Money is the Root of all Evil - both Steve Olson and Steve Pavlina take that one step further and explain why if you think money is evil you will never have any.  Steve Olson's post has a great list of things he grew up hearing that implied having money was bad.  Here's the ones on his list that I also heard a lot:

  • He’s filthy rich
  • That house is a waste of space, can you imagine the heat bill
  • Whadda ya think money grows on trees
  • He’s got money to burn
  • How much money does a person need?

All of those are negative comments and imply that having money is evil, but money enables you to do things.  It's very hard to save the world or even yourself if you don't have any money. 

So, earn the money, make sure it doesn't ruin you, use it wisely and accomplish your goals.  You can use money to find a cure for autism or to hang out on the beach for the rest of your life or make sure everybody in your town makes it to college.  Without money any of those will be hard to accomplish.  It's even easier to stay in shape, eat healthy and live a longer life if you have money.   

Passing on having money won't make you a better person, it will just give you one less tool to accomplish what you'd like to do in life.

Photo by Big-E-Mr-G.

Quote of the Day

"Spend at least as much time researching
a stock as you would choosing a refrigerator."

                                                - Peter Lynch

How to Go Through Airport Security Like a Pro

71326747_f99c25317a Ok, so nobody goes through like a pro anymore.  The ever changing rules are made to make it as awkward and silly as possible.  But since I can still get through quickly if not easily, I thought I'd share some tips.

First off, if you are checking a bag, check everything except your book and life will be much easier.  Just remember to take off your shoes and belt (or don't wear a belt), and you'll be set.  Oh, and your jacket.

If, like me, you hate checking a bag, here's what you need to do:

  1. First, put all your liquids, like toothpaste, in a plastic baggie.  You can do this at home, but if you forget most airports have plastic baggies handy for you. DIA does.  Make sure that none of your liquid containers hold more than 3 ounces.  (That's like one of those travel size bottles of mouth wash or toothpaste.)  No full water bottles.  (You can take an empty bottle through and fill it at the fountain in the terminal.) Then take all of the liquids and put them in a ziploc bag and put it in a very easy to access pocket of your carryon. I've found that liquids are the most overlooked thing in security, so if you forgot to put your toothpaste in the baggie, don't panic.  When you go through security you will need to take this baggie out and put it in one of the plastic bins.
  2. Next, everything in your pockets should be stowed away in your bag.  You can do this while you are waiting in line. I have a pocket in my briefcase I reserve for the "everything in my pockets" including my watch.
  3. Laptop. Your laptop will need to go through in a bin of its own so have it handy.  I put both my plastic baggie of liquids and my laptop in the outside pockets of my rollaboard all by themselves so it's easy to pull them out.
  4. Jacket.  Jackets must come off.  Sometimes if you're a woman they'll let you slide by in your suit jacket.  Sometimes they won't.
  5. Shoes.  All shoes must come off and go through the xray machine.
  6. Belts.  Not all belts have to come off but it saves a lot of time to just take it off and run it through the xray machine with your shoes.  If the machine you walk through beeps, you might have to go through extra security steps like being wanded.
  7. Boarding pass.  In some airports you will need to hold your boarding pass in your hand as you step through the scanner.  (You don't in DIA but you do in San Jose, San Francisco, etc.)

So at this point you will have your suitcase, your purse or briefcase and two bins (one with your laptop or video camera and one with your shoes, belt, and jacket) plus you will need to hold your boarding pass in your hand.  So as best you can slide the bins and your bags through the xray machine.  Walk through the scanner with your boarding pass and then put yourself together on the other end!  I always store my laptop first and then put on my shoes - but that's all personal preference.  (I walked off without my laptop once which is why I always grab it first.)

Lately I've found that getting in line behind kids is actually a good thing.  They take off their shoes much faster than the adults, don't wear belts, and don't carry suitcases full of things that might make security suspicious.

Photo by plugimi.

The Best Way to Sleep on an Airplane

I travel a lot and one of my indispensable items is my Eagle Creek neck pillow.  Lately I've been getting a lot of 6am flights (which means I wake up at 3:30am) but it means I have one more evening at home with the family.  My neck pillow guarantees I'll get another two hours of sleep on the airplane.

I used to always get a window seat and then I'd shove a pillow or a coat between the window and my head.  But no matter how well I slept I'd always wake up with a neck ache.  (I even had a guy wake me up once and tell me that my head was bobbing so much he was afraid I'd be in pain when I woke up!)  With my Eagle Creek pillow I can sleep sitting up in any seat.  It's terrific.

The key is not to blow it up all the way - I usually try two or three times before I get it just right.  It inflates and deflates really easily and although it's not the smallest thing in the world, I always make room for it in my brief case on those early am flights!  It makes a great gift for anyone you know that travels a lot.

Fancy lockers at the law school

CulawlockersWhen I think of lawyers, I think of suits and ties, fancy dinners and nice cars.  Things to recruit clients with.  And things associated with lawyers are also fancy, like law libraries.  Well, just so you know, even the lockers at law schools are upscale.  This is a picture of the very nice wooden lockers at the CU Law School.  They look nothing like the metal ones we had in high school and college. 

The students on the other hand were wearing jeans like students everywhere.

Can you name all 50 states in 10 minutes?

254460772_72941ca3a7 Can you name all 50 states in 10 minutes?  Try this web challenge.  Frank and I got 49!  I won't tell you which one we missed because it's embarassing!

Photo by Marxchivist.

The Secret to Losing Weight is to Work Like a Sled Dog

113448744_ecdfff3097 The secret to losing weight is to work like a sled dog.  According to Wired Magazine sled dogs burn 10,000 calories a day!  Since there's 3500 calories to a pound, that means they would lose three pounds a day if they didn't eat lots.  So, work as hard as a sled dog running and pulling a sled all day and you too could lose three pounds a day!  (Check with your doctor first!)

Photo by Ranger Gord.

Basques in Boise, Idaho

394429297_7657c30b59Did you know that there is a community of Basques in Boise, Idaho?  I'm in Boise on a business trip and after hearing about two great Basque restaurants I asked, how did Boise, Idaho end up with Basque restaurants?  It turns out that Boise has the largest population of Basques outside of Spain.  They came here in the 1800s as sheepherders, miners and loggers.  Now there are Basque restaurants, museums and even a Basque preschool in Boise!

Photo by Thorbion.

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